To this day, I keep learning something new on this forum. I check in almost every day and most days, several times a day. I just want to see what my friends are working on each day!
Me, too.
Interesting how you obviously touched a nerve with a very insightful and well thought out post. (Certain individuals may take that as a hint.)
I've only been here half as long (but I have more posts so I must be one of those who needs a hint). OTOH, I began my ER just over 14 years ago and share essentially all of your feelings about it.
The most pertinent line (for me) in your post was
What a surprise to realize that RE includes an entire subculture from all walks of life and financial situations!
I think that has also been my biggest surprise, and it is truly delightful.