MissMolly
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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I don't recall her saying she had a supplement along with Medicare.
She’s 63. She’s not on Medicare.
I don't recall her saying she had a supplement along with Medicare.
She’s 63. She’s not on Medicare.
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I just googled average salary for pharmacist in Maine and it is over $100,000K/year.
I believe Your daughter and SIL have the means to pay you a salary for your services, even if they are family. Your time is valuable.
She’s 63. She’s not on Medicare.
She’s 63. She’s not on Medicare.
...I'm also getting Medicare and food stamps! Yes the state is aware of my living situation. ...
Yep. You guys are correct. She did say she was on Medicare. I completely missed that. But she doesn't say anything about being disabled so I also believe she must mean Medicaid.
Recall that as part of the ACA guidelines, some states agreed to expand Medicaid for those who didn't earn enough to qualify for an ACA policy. Not all states did this (maybe Maine did?).
For those states that didn't, if you didn't make enough to qualify for an ACA plan, and you couldn't afford an open market health plan (who could?), then you dropped into a hole where you could not get health coverage as expanded Medicaid was not available.
The OP's situation may be one where a more affordable Medicare Advantage plan makes sense.
This gets worse by the minute. Spent all her savings,is on Medicaid while she's working in the home of family members making 200k. I don't think much of her DD and SIL.
You know if this was for a year or two I might give DD some slack..this is almost 2 decades of below market childcare.Perhaps they don't really know her financial situation, and consider the deal to work because she gets room/board staying with them? But yes I agree, the conversation needs to start at home if it hasn't already.
I mean if my Mom is staying with me to help raise my kids, and thinking in a couple of years she can only get an RV to live in, I'd want to know and be working on ways to avoid that reality now.
I'm way short on quality data to judge DD.You know if this was for a year or two I might give DD some slack..this is almost 2 decades of below market childcare.
Perhaps they don't really know her financial situation, and consider the deal to work because she gets room/board staying with them? But yes I agree, the conversation needs to start at home if it hasn't already.
I mean if my Mom is staying with me to help raise my kids, and thinking in a couple of years she can only get an RV to live in, I'd want to know and be working on ways to avoid that reality now.
That's a possibility, but I really love gardening.
This is exactly what I had tried to post earlier but for some reason the original post was gone so I couldn't. Sell your daughter on the idea of building a granny flat at the bottom of the garden which will increase their property value and give grandma the independence she needs. As the kids get older you'll have more time to take short trips so spend your money on vacations or even just day trips to get away for a while. An RV would just be a huge financial burden in my opinion.I'd think about your family building an ADU on their property for you to live in. (and do I have to say it out loud....rent free for the rest of your life) This gives you some independence & they get child care. Better than a mobile home on the property & more comfortable.
This allows you to stretch your income farther. In addition to the salary you would earn from the parents
I'm 63, and about 10 years ago walked away from an unfulfilling job in order to take care of my grandkids and help my daughter and son-in-law so they wouldn't have the stress that I had when my daughter was little and I was working full-time . We all picked up and moved to Maine, a lovely but poor state. They have great jobs and a nice property. In 8 to 10 years I won't be needed as a caregiver since the grandkids will be driving teenagers by that time, hopefully. Although I live rent free with my daughter with no utility bills, I really want to be independent again. I retired in 2020, having used up all my savings. So now I'm basically starting all over again. I try to save as much as I can, and I expect an inheritance of about $100,000 in a few years. I don't know if I would want to buy an RV and travel, get a mobile home in a park for security considerations (neither would grow in value), or get a standalone mobile home on a piece of land for investment considerations. I would really love a piece of land of my own, but then the mobile home would probably be pretty dilapidated, and I won't have money to fix it up. I don't really expect magic answers, but other peoples experiences are very valuable!
If I was the OP and have Medicare...
OP cannot be on Medicare. She must be confusing Medicaid with Medicare. She is only 63 years old according to her first post. Since she is on Medicaid, she needs to keep her income extremely low to continue with Medicaid, else she'll be kicked off and have to purchase an ACA plan.
OP cannot be on Medicare. She must be confusing Medicaid with Medicare. She is only 63 years old according to her first post. Since she is on Medicaid, she needs to keep her income extremely low to continue with Medicaid, else she'll be kicked off and have to purchase an ACA plan.
I am going to die when I am 86; how do I know? In my 30's I was doing some retirement planning and looking at insurance annuities (didn't go there). In the planning/application process they did a health/heredity/life expectancy study and determined I would probably check out around 86.
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Apparently, you didn't read any of my previous posts.
She says she is on Medicare. She didn't say anything else.
My stepdaughter is on Medicare and is 55 years old. Many people can be on Medicare under 65 if they meet certain conditions. One is be getting SS disability payments. There are others.
Yes it might cost 20 bucks a month for a better plan. ...if you are babysitting your grandkids full time should you make more then Medicaid income