ready2enjoy
Confused about dryer sheets
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- Jul 30, 2023
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Hello everybody,
Was reading the forum for some time and finally decided to join today
I am in my early 50s and married, no kids. Lost motivation at work and things aren’t getting any better. Income has been going down a lot over the years but is still pretty decent, except with inflation doesn’t feel like it.
We are currently spending more than my work income, rest covered from investments.
Now comes the tricky part: while I don’t hate my job, I am burnt out and feel like I am wasting my life. Becoming stressed about “time”, ie feel like the remaining good years are ticking away while doing something I no longer enjoy and it keeps me from doing things I would want to do such as traveling and living in other countries for some time.
This is the financial situation:
401k: 1M
Roth IRA: 350k
after tax investments: 1.4M
Private illiquid investments: 3M (incl. significant unrealized gains)
Real Estate: 2M with 1.35M mortgage
Expenses: approx 260k pa, need min 320k pre-tax; Job income approx 200k
So there is a good amount of assets but majority is illiquid and high risk, can’t easily cash out of those.
Clearly I could not afford to walk away from my job and continue current lifestyle but just waiting and hoping for a home run could result in frustration if one day I “wake up, am 60 and nothing changed”.
One thought we discussed was this: setting a deadline (for example 55) and by then, baring financial disaster, decide to walk away no matter what. This could mean potentially significant lifestyle change as the non illiquid assets barely support spending half of what we currently spend. But not planning to do a major lifestyle change right now because there is a chance that the private investments become liquid and even more valuable within the next few years and we would not want to downgrade significantly unless necessary.
Having said all of this, what is everyone’s assessment of our situation? Does setting an age deadline make sense or better ideas on how to deal with it? Biggest uncertainty is that half of the assets might be worth much more than what they are now or it could be zero (rather unlikely).
Was reading the forum for some time and finally decided to join today
I am in my early 50s and married, no kids. Lost motivation at work and things aren’t getting any better. Income has been going down a lot over the years but is still pretty decent, except with inflation doesn’t feel like it.
We are currently spending more than my work income, rest covered from investments.
Now comes the tricky part: while I don’t hate my job, I am burnt out and feel like I am wasting my life. Becoming stressed about “time”, ie feel like the remaining good years are ticking away while doing something I no longer enjoy and it keeps me from doing things I would want to do such as traveling and living in other countries for some time.
This is the financial situation:
401k: 1M
Roth IRA: 350k
after tax investments: 1.4M
Private illiquid investments: 3M (incl. significant unrealized gains)
Real Estate: 2M with 1.35M mortgage
Expenses: approx 260k pa, need min 320k pre-tax; Job income approx 200k
So there is a good amount of assets but majority is illiquid and high risk, can’t easily cash out of those.
Clearly I could not afford to walk away from my job and continue current lifestyle but just waiting and hoping for a home run could result in frustration if one day I “wake up, am 60 and nothing changed”.
One thought we discussed was this: setting a deadline (for example 55) and by then, baring financial disaster, decide to walk away no matter what. This could mean potentially significant lifestyle change as the non illiquid assets barely support spending half of what we currently spend. But not planning to do a major lifestyle change right now because there is a chance that the private investments become liquid and even more valuable within the next few years and we would not want to downgrade significantly unless necessary.
Having said all of this, what is everyone’s assessment of our situation? Does setting an age deadline make sense or better ideas on how to deal with it? Biggest uncertainty is that half of the assets might be worth much more than what they are now or it could be zero (rather unlikely).