RetireAge50
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Nothing complicated, each child 50% of anything remaining. Probably gonna be $1 million each in today’s dollars regardless of how long we live.
Why a prepaid funeral? Is there a law requiring your survivors to pay for your funeral?
If nobody steps up, I believe the state will have to cough up for a cremation.
Just the legacy that I want to leave, that I mismanaged my money so the state had to pay for my burial.... no thank you.
No kids. I always say, somewhat jokingly, that's some stripper if it may not even be born yet will wind up with the bulk of mine
Hilarious! I remember reading years ago about some old guy that left a quarter of his cash to girls at a strip club naming each girl. His family was furious but still lost in court. Bambi, Raven, and Amber got to keep the money.
.... DD has concerns about making sure I plan for care; she is my only child and will be stuck if I don’t.
I have a bit of a dilemma. I know that a will communicates more than money (or assets) but one child is very wealthy as a result of her own efforts (grabbing a brass ring employment wise). The other child works long hours and while not wealthy the business is doing fine. Each child has two children. The second child mentioned will need to dig deep to pay for those grandchildren's college expenses. The first child asked me to stop funding one of her children's 259 because the need is addressed.
Our wills and survivor designations are equal. I am considering making more significant contributions to the other grandchildren's 529 accounts as that will not raise the question of inequitable distribution at death. The last thing I want is to cause our estate planning to drive a wedge between the children.
A slightly different situation but possibly helpful. My parents planned to leave everything to my sister and me 50/50. After our father died, my sister was the primary helper for our mother for more than 7 years until her death (I live 2000 miles away and they were in the same small town). A year or two before she died, one time when I was visiting Mom she asked if I would mind her changing her will to split things 60/40 since my sister was doing so much for her. I immediately agreed for all kinds of reasons (including that DH and I were already comfortably FI). I would hope our children would behave the same should a similar situation arise.