Closet_Gamer
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
A 20 year old and a 16 year old here.
Our plan has always been a phased distribution from college costs until they were 40 with a $2M (inflation adjusted) cap on each kid, and most of the money being delivered at age 40. By the time you're 40, you are a fully formed adult and are whoever you are. Hopefully between trying to raise them right and not giving them loads of dough along the way, they are responsible and able to handle it. Time will tell.
After that it goes to family members and charity.
We often discuss trying to set up a multi-generational educational trust if we wind up with enough $$$. Something that let's us reach across the generations and help out. At some point in our family tree, some descendent is going to get stuck with crap parent and a crap situation. If we knew we had laid a foundation for basic education even if you have crap parents, that would mean a lot to us.
Hopefully I have a long time to refine this plan!!!
Our plan has always been a phased distribution from college costs until they were 40 with a $2M (inflation adjusted) cap on each kid, and most of the money being delivered at age 40. By the time you're 40, you are a fully formed adult and are whoever you are. Hopefully between trying to raise them right and not giving them loads of dough along the way, they are responsible and able to handle it. Time will tell.
After that it goes to family members and charity.
We often discuss trying to set up a multi-generational educational trust if we wind up with enough $$$. Something that let's us reach across the generations and help out. At some point in our family tree, some descendent is going to get stuck with crap parent and a crap situation. If we knew we had laid a foundation for basic education even if you have crap parents, that would mean a lot to us.
Hopefully I have a long time to refine this plan!!!