Even parents aren't sure why...
So I believe part of the theme of born that way, but not exactly sure why. Two brothers one who is frugal, saves, and PLANS, and the other who flies thru life on the seat of his pants and crashes often when things don't work out.
Both raised in the same house, same rules, but apparently we are wired much differently. Parents don't see how it happened either. Lucked out and married another frugal person in my DW. She was born quite poor and knew her parents were poor from a very young age. She has always been frugal and lives by the rule of wants and needs. We never have the newest thing in stores, or have to have that new model of vehicle. We do travel very well, search out discounts and coupons like it was a real life game of monopoly and we want to win , and will soon see the fruits of our labor.
I think it is too easy to drink the koolaid and just buy the newest to keep up with the Jones and I think it is much worse now than it was when I was a kid. A new hot product is announced and they sell out by the millions immediately (IPhone, game console, electric car, you name it).
We teach our kids the right way to secure a happy and successful retirement down the road, about saving and investing, and planning, but their proof will only be realized later, I hope they do well, they are not yet committed to being frugal yet.
So I believe part of the theme of born that way, but not exactly sure why. Two brothers one who is frugal, saves, and PLANS, and the other who flies thru life on the seat of his pants and crashes often when things don't work out.
Both raised in the same house, same rules, but apparently we are wired much differently. Parents don't see how it happened either. Lucked out and married another frugal person in my DW. She was born quite poor and knew her parents were poor from a very young age. She has always been frugal and lives by the rule of wants and needs. We never have the newest thing in stores, or have to have that new model of vehicle. We do travel very well, search out discounts and coupons like it was a real life game of monopoly and we want to win , and will soon see the fruits of our labor.
I think it is too easy to drink the koolaid and just buy the newest to keep up with the Jones and I think it is much worse now than it was when I was a kid. A new hot product is announced and they sell out by the millions immediately (IPhone, game console, electric car, you name it).
We teach our kids the right way to secure a happy and successful retirement down the road, about saving and investing, and planning, but their proof will only be realized later, I hope they do well, they are not yet committed to being frugal yet.