Hello!
My husband, 57, is thinking about taking an early separation package from his job, where he's been an engineer for 30 years. He is mostly fine with the financial aspect - he knows we have enough to live on well into our 90s. But he is scared of the unknown future. Specifically, being an introvert, all of his friends are from work and when he leaves he will only have me. (He has no family, except our three kids, who all live in other states.) We definitely have to leave San Jose and move to a less expensive location - like Nevada or Florida. (I have been a homemaker since 1991.)
So - ideas anyone on how to mitigate his fears of the unknown, but exciting, future that awaits him? Whether it is next week, or next year - or ten years, he is going to have to face retirement sometime.
Thanks!
My husband, 57, is thinking about taking an early separation package from his job, where he's been an engineer for 30 years. He is mostly fine with the financial aspect - he knows we have enough to live on well into our 90s. But he is scared of the unknown future. Specifically, being an introvert, all of his friends are from work and when he leaves he will only have me. (He has no family, except our three kids, who all live in other states.) We definitely have to leave San Jose and move to a less expensive location - like Nevada or Florida. (I have been a homemaker since 1991.)
So - ideas anyone on how to mitigate his fears of the unknown, but exciting, future that awaits him? Whether it is next week, or next year - or ten years, he is going to have to face retirement sometime.
Thanks!