DH did all the grilling while he was alive. I like to think I'm not bound by gender stereotypes (I was, after all, the Chief Investment Officer in the marriage), but I never touched the grill except to turn or baste what was cooking on occasion. We had an easy-to-use propane grill but I was always worried something would blow up. After DH died I didn't touch it for almost 6 months, then had a friend walk me through it step-by-step (and reassure me that an explosion was EXTREMELY unlikely). It still took me months to venture out and use it. That was until last week. Wow. It's really not that hard!
I don't eat a lot of meat but I LOVE vegetables and stuck a few on skewers and added a simple marinade of olive oil and balsamic vinegar. Fantastic. I think I've used the grill 5 out of the last 7 days. Bonus: it keeps the heat from cooking out of the kitchen.