I only have one brother but lots of extended family on both my mother and father's side; we all get along very well--they are wonderful people. My brother and I always got along great; there is a 7-year age difference between us. He lives out west; I live in NE OH but we saw each other quite a bit. My mother died 4 years ago, he came east and helped me settle the estate; everything went perfect.
Fast forward to last July. DH and I got involved in the Obama campaign; so involved, in fact, that I'm taking credit for delivering the vote in our township. LOL! Anyway, brother is Christian right; that's OK with me--everyone is entitled to their own life. We could always talk politics and religion and not hold grudges. In July I started getting horrible horrible horrible emails from him regarding Obama. Things like Obama crucified on a cross. For the first 2 months, I simply deleted the emails without opening them; all these emails were directed to everyone on his email list. I asked him to please not include me in these emails to no avail. Then one day, I received a particularly bad one addressed to me only; I opened it. I sent him an email saying "PLEASE STOP SENDING ME THIS CRAP'!!!!! About 2 days later, he called and reamed me out but good; said I'd lost all my sense and he was done with me--don't ever contact him again. Needless to say, I was beyond stunned. So I let it go. Thanksgiving and Christmas came and went and I had no word from him or his family. I'm wondering what me nieces and nephew are thinking. On the anniversary of my mother's death in April, I sent him an email and said: I love you and miss you every day, just like ma. The reply said "if you're lonely, contact (here he listed names of a dozen of our relatives)". I never dreamed he could be so hurtful. I'll never get over it.