There's a post about the 10 best places to grow old that received a lot of negativity. "I couldn't live in Xxxxx because of the people." It got me to thinking about my experience relocating.
About twelve years ago the wife and I owned a tiny cape cod in a town with a so so school district. It was 15 minutes from a harbor where I could catch rock fish on poppers at dusk. We had upgraded everything, added two bedrooms with skylights and a big bathroom to the second floor. I was as 'snug as a bug in a rug' there. Then the neighborhood started to change. I became unhappy with my kids catholic school experience and the annual school budget battle. The opportunity popped up to move to Pennsylvania. It seemed like a way to leave the density and insane prices on Long Island.
I sold that tiny cape cod for $500k and bought much bigger house for $70k less. We have a kitchen table in the kitchen! I lost the fishing but gained a big garden.. (BLTs last night). My kids attended a stellar school and the taxes were the same. A couple of friends followed us to escape the insanity of metro area. Every one of them is happier. Others expressed a desire to move but felt trapped because of relatives living nearby. They will live their lives out with 40 miles of where they were born.
It is a big country and I believe too many people don't avail themselves of the better life that's out there. You don't have to pay $500k for a tiny house and $10k school taxes. You may lose that awesome pizza place around the corner but you may see a red fox on your lawn. Once moved much of being happy is making the most of what your new location has to offer. Not dwelling on what you gave up.
I can't help but think life retirement is much the same. I see it as an adventure.
So few will take a chance.. and I think it is a pity.
Anyone else relocate to a better life Care to chime in?
About twelve years ago the wife and I owned a tiny cape cod in a town with a so so school district. It was 15 minutes from a harbor where I could catch rock fish on poppers at dusk. We had upgraded everything, added two bedrooms with skylights and a big bathroom to the second floor. I was as 'snug as a bug in a rug' there. Then the neighborhood started to change. I became unhappy with my kids catholic school experience and the annual school budget battle. The opportunity popped up to move to Pennsylvania. It seemed like a way to leave the density and insane prices on Long Island.
I sold that tiny cape cod for $500k and bought much bigger house for $70k less. We have a kitchen table in the kitchen! I lost the fishing but gained a big garden.. (BLTs last night). My kids attended a stellar school and the taxes were the same. A couple of friends followed us to escape the insanity of metro area. Every one of them is happier. Others expressed a desire to move but felt trapped because of relatives living nearby. They will live their lives out with 40 miles of where they were born.
It is a big country and I believe too many people don't avail themselves of the better life that's out there. You don't have to pay $500k for a tiny house and $10k school taxes. You may lose that awesome pizza place around the corner but you may see a red fox on your lawn. Once moved much of being happy is making the most of what your new location has to offer. Not dwelling on what you gave up.
I can't help but think life retirement is much the same. I see it as an adventure.
So few will take a chance.. and I think it is a pity.
Anyone else relocate to a better life Care to chime in?
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