First let me set the stage: in the past three months my early 60s, 2 years retired, easy going SIL was diagnosed with Cancer. To my knowledge Jill has probably never had an unkind word for anyone. After the initial shock. The siblings rushed to get tests that they should have gotten at 50. (Which is the only good thing that can come from something like this).
I at the office and get an instant message from my other SIL - we both wok for the same company. “Do you think I should ask for a package”. Apparently my SIL is very unhappy with her job. “My Boss doesn’t like me and Im sick of the Bull____.” I respond well if they aren’t offering packages then you likely wont get one. She then tells me “twice now he’s said there will be expense cuts and things will be different around here” I said it would hurt to say something like “It wouldnt be the worse thing in the world if I was laid off. I looked it up and her severance would be one year. SIL is a member of the 6 figure club and owes $11,000 on her mortgage. Put another way, financially she is sitting pretty.
We have a conversation in person and she tells “I am in a funk” and “look what happened to Jill we don’t have forever”. I agree but change from 3 days a week to 4 (until the holidays).
I tell her you are in the catbirds seat and cant lose one way or another. I further tell her you are financially set - 2 years away from early SS.
You know talk like this can be contagious!
Edit: I meant to say 7 figure club in savings...
I at the office and get an instant message from my other SIL - we both wok for the same company. “Do you think I should ask for a package”. Apparently my SIL is very unhappy with her job. “My Boss doesn’t like me and Im sick of the Bull____.” I respond well if they aren’t offering packages then you likely wont get one. She then tells me “twice now he’s said there will be expense cuts and things will be different around here” I said it would hurt to say something like “It wouldnt be the worse thing in the world if I was laid off. I looked it up and her severance would be one year. SIL is a member of the 6 figure club and owes $11,000 on her mortgage. Put another way, financially she is sitting pretty.
We have a conversation in person and she tells “I am in a funk” and “look what happened to Jill we don’t have forever”. I agree but change from 3 days a week to 4 (until the holidays).
I tell her you are in the catbirds seat and cant lose one way or another. I further tell her you are financially set - 2 years away from early SS.
You know talk like this can be contagious!
Edit: I meant to say 7 figure club in savings...
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