I grew up in ABQ from 5th grade through university (1963-1976). I still have relatives and friends there.
It has really sprawled out. Places on the outskirts of town where I used to go dirtbiking are miles and miles inside the houses now. They are also, from what I've been told, really drawing down the fossil aquifer. Water is going to be one of the big resource issues in this century, and sooner or later the arid states are going to find they just can't steal enough of it from each other.
I suspect we'll probably stay here in San Francisco, unless once we start traveling a bit we find someplace that we just can't resist. We both loathe heat (70* in the house sees a formal declaration of heat wave, and the box fan is dragged out) and cold, as well as clammy humidity (funny, three blocks from the ocean and it isn't a problem here, but go to Baltimore or HI or the midwest . . .). I've lived in Iowa, OK, LA, TX, NM and north and south CA, and I don't want anything to do with snow.
Yes, the traffic in the Bay Area is getting pretty sucky all weekend long, and you have to know the heavy commute directions and times so you can avoid them as much as possible. But I don't mind occasionally needing a light sweatshirt in the summer, or occasionally needing a light sweatshirt in the winter.
Medical facilities are no problem, we've got an adequate public transportation system, and good museums and cultural events. Last night we went to a club over on the beach and listened (for free) to an assortment of guitarists and drummers trading off playing in an instrumental surf band, and today went to the Tibet exhibit at the Asian Art Museum and then a movie at the Metreon. We can be in wine country in an hour, and I've got several race tracks I can ride at within a 2.5 hour radius. My sweetheart does jewelry/lapidary stuff for fun, and the local gem and mineral society clubhouse is literally around the corner from us, as are several nice neighborhood restaurants, Ocean Beach (Nords, you'd like the surfing here, or the Mavericks down the coast a few miles) and Golden Gate Park. Oh yeah, having no smoking in those restaurants, bars and clubs is REALLY nice.
I sure wouldn't mind not living in a row house, and having more storage/shop space at home would be nice.
But we've never been the types that have longed to be at the beach/lake/cabin/mountains so there hasn't yet been any "boy, now that we're both FIREd we can finally move to, to, um, where do we want to move to, if we do?" moments.
But if we were to move we'd definitely want to spend some time in all the seasons that the place had. I'd hate to move to some place that I loved 8 months out of the year, but loathed the other four because the skeeters/black flies/tourists made it unliveable.
cheers,
Michael