Sue, I just came from a Medicare Advantage seminar this morning. It sounds like what your Dad has is a Medicare Advantage Plan, aka Medicare Part C. These depend on your being enrolled in Medicare Parts A and B, but are in fact separate plans with separate rules, charges, and benefits.
Like most things involving seniors in USA, they are incredibly complex and frustrating. One thing about switching back to Medicare Classic- he likely cannot get a Medigap policy at this time, as these will be health contingent. So he will be exposed to various unpaid charges approved but left unpaid by Medicare.
I would recommend speaking to your state insurance department, and also a quality insurance broker. Also, we have a health insurance expert on this board named Gotadimple. If she is around, she may be able to offer some insight.
There are a lot of one way gates in this stuff.
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Thank you, Ha. So far he wants to stay with his Anthem plan and I think the inability to get a Medigap policy makes staying with Anthem the best choice for now.
A quick update -
I'm no longer visiting daily, my sister lives a few miles away and I'm 30 miles away and have a part-time job so she's doing the daily visits and I'm calling frequently. DH went to visit yesterday afternoon and left to come home at 5:15pm and had to deal with suburban Cleveland rush hour traffic so it took him over an hour to get home instead of 35 minutes.
My Dad is sore from daily physical therapy. He's practicing transferring from his bed to the wheelchair without assistance. He says it's very hard but he knows he needs to do this to go home. He's eaten in the group dining room and talked with a few "old farts". They are probably younger than him!
I brought in a double picture frame from his apartment. One side is a picture of him at 17 when he quit school to join the Navy. Cute young sailor! The other side is him in a cap and gown at age 79 when he finally got his high school diploma in a ceremony with our younger son when he graduated from high school in 2005. It was done through a program where veterans can get their diploma by using their military service and life experience to complete the unfinished business of graduating. It was a very proud moment for him, my son presented the diploma to him in front of all the people attending the graduation and the local newspaper had a nice article about it. I figured this would give the people working with him in rehab a glimpse of the real guy before his current situation and it's a nice conversation starter.
I talked to his investments guy at Wells Fargo about his RMD for this year. He's already withdrawn about 2/3 of what's required and wants to make sure that it's completed. No problem, I can call and get that done.
As for when he leaves rehab, he's asked about the home health aide that helped my sister's DH's parents before they died. He knows who she is and how well she cared for my BIL's parents in their own home for many years. She's currently with an agency but would love to work for him if needed. Nice to know that she's available and he's interested!
I'll go visit soon, maybe over the weekend. I'd like to go on a day when I have time to make a stop at the cemetery. It was just 3 weeks ago but I feel the need to see it again. It all happened so fast and when I replay it in my head I just feel the need to go there and take it all in slowly. I think I'm doing ok except that frequently I wake up crying, which right now seems appropriate and healthy for what we've been though.
Thanks for all the comments and positive thoughts.