haha
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Vicente, a lot of kind and helpful suggestions here. Taking just one of them and giving it a try would likely help.
What is less likely to help is continuing on the exact same path as before.
Is your village close enough to your house that you can walk or bike down there easily? How about buses or trains? Where I live there are many coffee houses, bars and other places where people gather. Usually one coffee house will be most popular for the older men. It is pretty easy to just sit down and join in. Now I would not try to suggest that these will be entertaining, enlightening or stimulating conversations. More just typically cranky old men. But these guys are breathing, and you might find that to be enough.
I lived out on an island in a very pretty spot. Once my kids were up and out, and my wife took off it became a tomb for me. I quickly realized that I am not one of the guys who could happily tinker away alone, going to town occasionally for nails or groceries. Didn't take me long to realize that my salvation lay in Seattle. I commuted back and forth for awhile, going to dances, parties, etc. but then I got whacked on the road and I decided my life as a pleasure commuter was over and moved.
Ultimately you too may need a more urban situation.
Ha
What is less likely to help is continuing on the exact same path as before.
Is your village close enough to your house that you can walk or bike down there easily? How about buses or trains? Where I live there are many coffee houses, bars and other places where people gather. Usually one coffee house will be most popular for the older men. It is pretty easy to just sit down and join in. Now I would not try to suggest that these will be entertaining, enlightening or stimulating conversations. More just typically cranky old men. But these guys are breathing, and you might find that to be enough.
I lived out on an island in a very pretty spot. Once my kids were up and out, and my wife took off it became a tomb for me. I quickly realized that I am not one of the guys who could happily tinker away alone, going to town occasionally for nails or groceries. Didn't take me long to realize that my salvation lay in Seattle. I commuted back and forth for awhile, going to dances, parties, etc. but then I got whacked on the road and I decided my life as a pleasure commuter was over and moved.
Ultimately you too may need a more urban situation.
Ha