because I just checked my mother's bank account online. I've talked about this before on this board but long story short: she had a incapacitating stroke 2 years ago, younger brother and I had POA because previous to the event she spent 6mos here, 6 mos there. She is now in a care facility there. He didn't pay bills, pay taxes, etc. so I took over-hard feelings ensued- we now no longer speak. Why am I seething? He &/or his wife have been writing checks to SIL's adult son/his stepson for $100-130, about 6 in the last 2 months. The memos say medical appt and medications. I pay her bills, she has medicare and a supplemental and any outstanding bills come to me to pay. What is he thinking? I know I need to get his POA revoked but wondered if anyone had any experience with this family crap. I plan to speak to an attorney here tomorrow and will call her attorney.
Lessons learned:1. if 2 people have a POA and one can't TCB don't continue to allow that person access to money.
2. Have everything you can think of in writing before you need it.
Judy
Lessons learned:1. if 2 people have a POA and one can't TCB don't continue to allow that person access to money.
2. Have everything you can think of in writing before you need it.
Judy