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I know that forming good habits is something that almost all early retirees are very good at. I was kind of a laggard though. Since I moved in my new place (~ 6 mos) I have read two books that I can really say have helped transform my life. One is The Power of Habit, by Charles Duhigg, the other is Willpower, by Roy Baumeister, PhD.
From Baumeister I got among ther things, that exerting willpower is exhausting, and tends to deplete the stores of whatever it takes to exert willpower the next time. So, don't go on a demanding diet and try to quit smoking at the same time. Or, if you are kind of feeling a crush on someone at work, be careful about starting a stringent budget at this time.
From Duhigg, I got some suggestions about forming good habits, which tend to make it less necessary to make a stand on pure willpower. He introduces the concept of keystone habits- good habits that make it easier to form other good habits- not all at once, for this is asking too much of ourselves, but over time. One keystone habit that he emphasizes is making the bed first thing every morning. I had gotten out of the habit of making my bed in my old apartment because my bedroom was so small that I really couldn't do much beyond pulling the covers up. So I have plenty room now, I made this my first project. Only time I don't make the bed right away is if I am going to strip it and launder the sheets. I feel kind of sheepish admitting that this very elementary thing has helped me so much.
Over the ensuing months I am keeping house better, doing a better job of keeping my dishes washed and even sometimes put away, always exercising, almost always taking whatever supplements I have programmed, almost always doing my complete dental regime. I have even begun again some religious practices that I had not had the discipline to do for a very long time.
To mention again one aspect, exercise- I bought my C2 September 15, 2011. I think God Willing I will make 1,000,000 meters by Memorial Day. I never had this much discipline before, except when there was some coach and other players to give me grief if I didn't keep up.
Please wish me luck, I really want to succeed at this.
Ha
From Baumeister I got among ther things, that exerting willpower is exhausting, and tends to deplete the stores of whatever it takes to exert willpower the next time. So, don't go on a demanding diet and try to quit smoking at the same time. Or, if you are kind of feeling a crush on someone at work, be careful about starting a stringent budget at this time.
From Duhigg, I got some suggestions about forming good habits, which tend to make it less necessary to make a stand on pure willpower. He introduces the concept of keystone habits- good habits that make it easier to form other good habits- not all at once, for this is asking too much of ourselves, but over time. One keystone habit that he emphasizes is making the bed first thing every morning. I had gotten out of the habit of making my bed in my old apartment because my bedroom was so small that I really couldn't do much beyond pulling the covers up. So I have plenty room now, I made this my first project. Only time I don't make the bed right away is if I am going to strip it and launder the sheets. I feel kind of sheepish admitting that this very elementary thing has helped me so much.
Over the ensuing months I am keeping house better, doing a better job of keeping my dishes washed and even sometimes put away, always exercising, almost always taking whatever supplements I have programmed, almost always doing my complete dental regime. I have even begun again some religious practices that I had not had the discipline to do for a very long time.
To mention again one aspect, exercise- I bought my C2 September 15, 2011. I think God Willing I will make 1,000,000 meters by Memorial Day. I never had this much discipline before, except when there was some coach and other players to give me grief if I didn't keep up.
Please wish me luck, I really want to succeed at this.
Ha