I've made no secret that I'm not a big fan of winter and I'd like to move south when my son graduates HS next June. The relatives are all retiring one by one and moving to Florida - building $500k mini castles with pools and tons of beautiful stone work. I am still not convinced - We already are part owners of a nice two bedroom town home in a closed community near Siesta Key. We are not fussy but the entrance is on the side and I feel a bit claustrophobic when we are there. The trouble is the traffic and congestion down there is simply awful. A zillion of us oldsters are flooding the state: sister-in-law: "I can't wait until the tourist go home."
The Mrs tells me when you don't have to get up early and deal with the weather the cold isn't a big deal. The trouble is I get cabin fever easily even if it's just a trip to the super market I need to get out. Hmmmm trapped in the house when it is 25 degrees outside - Naah. Been there done that. Then there's the whole two story living thing I hate going up and down those stairs. Yeah I've gotten trimmer since my knee job but I still don't like it. I'm thinking single floor living!
So we are college shopping for our son and took him to one of the satellite campuses of Penn state last week. He like his sister wouldn't likely do well in a big college. She's done fabulously - better then I could have hoped. The school is about an hour and fifteen minutes away (she's 41/2 hours away- trust me we worry about every trip too and fro.) Anyway the school we visited is neat as a pin and seems like a good match. All in yearly cost for a resident - low twenties - that's a bargain by the way. I've quietly researched a few schools further south in NC (satellite schools of UNC) my son like me isn't the type to have a strong preference - we manage with the situation presented to us. He's thinking computer science and math or business. Like me at 17, he's just not sure. So many options can be overwhelming. My daughter says he won't like the heat but she's complained about walking to class in the snow.. I remember when we moved her in freshmen year and the kid helping her login to the school network said "it will start snowing soon and it won't stop until May" he was accurate and we learned no car likes 5 below zero.
So during the trip my son says "So when I want to come home I get on a plane?" Being the great Dad I am I said "what makes you think I'll tell you where we are moving". Don't worry my son is fully used to my sarcasm. I can't say where this is leading but I can say it will be interesting.
It occurs to me with retirement we are in the same boat as my son ...too many options. I am grateful for the choices but making the right choice worries me.
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The Mrs tells me when you don't have to get up early and deal with the weather the cold isn't a big deal. The trouble is I get cabin fever easily even if it's just a trip to the super market I need to get out. Hmmmm trapped in the house when it is 25 degrees outside - Naah. Been there done that. Then there's the whole two story living thing I hate going up and down those stairs. Yeah I've gotten trimmer since my knee job but I still don't like it. I'm thinking single floor living!
So we are college shopping for our son and took him to one of the satellite campuses of Penn state last week. He like his sister wouldn't likely do well in a big college. She's done fabulously - better then I could have hoped. The school is about an hour and fifteen minutes away (she's 41/2 hours away- trust me we worry about every trip too and fro.) Anyway the school we visited is neat as a pin and seems like a good match. All in yearly cost for a resident - low twenties - that's a bargain by the way. I've quietly researched a few schools further south in NC (satellite schools of UNC) my son like me isn't the type to have a strong preference - we manage with the situation presented to us. He's thinking computer science and math or business. Like me at 17, he's just not sure. So many options can be overwhelming. My daughter says he won't like the heat but she's complained about walking to class in the snow.. I remember when we moved her in freshmen year and the kid helping her login to the school network said "it will start snowing soon and it won't stop until May" he was accurate and we learned no car likes 5 below zero.
So during the trip my son says "So when I want to come home I get on a plane?" Being the great Dad I am I said "what makes you think I'll tell you where we are moving". Don't worry my son is fully used to my sarcasm. I can't say where this is leading but I can say it will be interesting.
It occurs to me with retirement we are in the same boat as my son ...too many options. I am grateful for the choices but making the right choice worries me.
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