This is sort of a sensitive topic to me, which is why I couldn't bear to post until now.
Yes, people are dying too young. In less than 2 years I lost:
1) My ex-husband of 23 years, at age 67. (June, 2018)
2) My cousin who grew up with me like a sister and was my best friend, at age 68. (Sept, 2018)
3) My beloved older brother Bob, at age 77. (Feb, 2020)
I did not have enough time to get through the grief for each of them, before the next one died. And as if these weren't enough of a sucker punch in the gut, every time I Google the name of some old friend or other, lately there's more than a 50% chance of finding out they are dead.
Every day there is some famous person who has died. Not only that, due to my total ignorance I just found out that Roy Orbison died 33 years ago. Like an idiot I thought he was still alive and enjoying his old age.
I'm 73 and I am determined that I am not going to go until I am at least 90!!! Somebody's got to fill in the high end of the curve. Might as well be me.
Sounds good to me! I did my financial planning to age 117, and the oldest living person in the world is now 118. I know, such risk, I should have planned to age 118.Hey why stop at 90? We are counting on you to reach your goal of world's oldest woman.
Sounds good to me! I did my financial planning to age 117, and the oldest living person in the world is now 118. I know, such risk, I should have planned to age 118.
Plus don't forget Frank needs to also claim the male title.
Absolutely! He's 6 years younger than me. So, if he becomes the world's oldest male (now, age 112) I would still be alive if I lived to 118.
Absolutely! He's 6 years younger than me. So, if he becomes the world's oldest male (now, age 112) I would still be alive if I lived to 118.
This is sort of a sensitive topic to me, which is why I couldn't bear to post until now.
Yes, people are dying too young. In less than 2 years I lost:
1) My ex-husband of 23 years, at age 67. (June, 2018)
2) My cousin who grew up with me like a sister and was my best friend, at age 68. (Sept, 2018)
3) My beloved older brother Bob, at age 77. (Feb, 2020)
I did not have enough time to get through the grief for each of them, before the next one died. And as if these weren't enough of a sucker punch in the gut, every time I Google the name of some old friend or other, lately there's more than a 50% chance of finding out they are dead.
Every day there is some famous person who has died. Not only that, due to my total ignorance I just found out that Roy Orbison died 33 years ago. Like an idiot I thought he was still alive and enjoying his old age.
I'm 73 and I am determined that I am not going to go until I am at least 90!!! Somebody's got to fill in the high end of the curve. Might as well be me.
Just got word that a fellow Air Force retiree I flew with has passed away after having surgery (something related to an infection). He was only 46.
And another former flying colleague that is battling stage 4 cancer and it isn't looking good for him. Tough day today, for sure.
Found out today that a former coworker has pancreatic and liver cancer. Chemotherapy hasn't worked, and he said they are telling him he has maybe 6 months left. He is 68 years old, never smoked, doesn't drink, normal weight. I'm 66, and this is about the fourth coworker around my age that has died or become very ill in the last couple years or so. Don't wait too long to retire, folks, you never know how long you will have on this earth.
Was a stud but stopped breathing 100 times an hr and didn’t wear his CPAP. I went and had a sleep study and I was 24 per hr. So after 4 yrs using it I don’t leave home without it.
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I'll be 78 in a few months.
Heh heh heh - Hope I'm not spiking the ball before the goal line. As a child I remember Grandmom always reading the local obit to see who she out lived.
So said:Many of us think the same way but we can't/shouldn't beat ourselves up for it ("why didn't I retire earlier"). Life is filled with pleasant and less than pleasant occurrences. Just continue to enjoy the retirement time you do have; you earned it.
Many of us think the same way but we can't/shouldn't beat ourselves up for it ("why didn't I retire earlier"). Life is filled with pleasant and less than pleasant occurrences. Just continue to enjoy the retirement time you do have; you earned it.