I did not panic sell when covid hit and have gained all those losses back and then some.
It’s my belief that this is the defining characteristic that divides the few effective DIYers from the majority who would benefit from a low cost financial planner. How many people have the cast iron constitution required to sit there and do nothing while their portfolio tanks, as it certainly will periodically? Everyone has the ability to DIY like a pro when markets are rising. It’s the times when markets face-plant when the most damaging DIY mistakes that damage long-term net worth are made.
You cannot know which one you are until you live through some plunges and observe with brutal honesty how you felt and, more importantly, what you did in response.
I have invested for 25 years and I know that when I read the news and convince myself that the sh*t is likely to hit the fan (hello 2018 Trade Wars), I fiddle with my allocation in the effort to “optimize.” It never works and I always regret it later. That’s why I turned over the car keys to Vanguard’s relatively inexpensive AUM, because I know myself and I am not safe to drive when storms are on the horizon (and storms are ALWAYS on the horizon).
If you have lived through 30-50% market plunges and have not lifted a finger, great.
If your spouse will know what to do and can take good care of him or herself financially if you suddenly take a dirt nap, great.
If you and your spouse see eye to eye on all major spending decisions or can work out any differences alone smoothly in the context of your relationship, great.
If you’re still working and accumulating, not depending on your portfolio and your salary is the superpower that can fix all mistakes, great.
I know myself well enough through painful experiences to know that I am not those things. For me and for my spouse, life is much better with a low cost, neutral and knowledgeable, never-pushy Vanguard advisor. Cheers.