Thanks, imoldernu. I'm glad you helped us all remember this day of infamy.
As you might guess, Dec. 7 is an important day here on Oahu. There will be lots of activities at Pearl Harbor, though I've never braved the traffic to go on 12/7. I have been to the memorial, museum, etc. dozens of times and, if God grants me the time, I'll go many more times. The emotions of the place are difficult to describe. I felt the same way about the Viet Nam memorial. Tears flow unexpectedly. I hope to live to see the WWII memorial some day.
My ancestral family was quite small. Only an uncle fought in WWII. He was a Navy Chief and saw much action in the Pacific. According to my mom (married to his brother) he couldn't stop talking about the war for a couple of years. Then, he came to some sort of peace with it and rarely spoke of it again.
According to DW, my FIL wanted to talk it out about his experiences in the pacific (he was an amphib driver) but his wife (my MIL) would not let him talk about it. In later year, when FIL and I got a chance to go off by ourselves, he would tell me stories. One of his saddest stories was about one of the landings he participated in - can't recall the campaign. They had loaded several amphibs, and to space them properly for the actual landing, they had these machines form a circle (sort of like we do now at airports when traffic is heavy.) I have seen lots of invasion videos where you see such a circle behind the troop transport. In this case, there was some SNAFU and the amphibs began to run out of fuel. These floating chunks of metal were barely sea worthy in good weather. When there were swells and boat wakes, the amphibs flooded. Only the bilge pumps kept them from quickly sinking. As fuel ran out, many sank and most of the men drowned. Not sure why I related this story on this thread, but maybe I just need to get it out. Can't even imagine what it would have been like to live the actual experience.
A dear friend was 23 on Dec. 7. He was a Navy man stationed on shore at Pearl. He watched the whole attack as he reported to his duty station from his quarters. He spent the next 4 years on 3 ships, all of which were shot from under him. One of his duties was to shine a light from a mine sweeper as they were looking for enemy periscopes within a convoy. You might guess the results. His best friend was hit by a shell - intended for his light as the buddy stood a few feet away from my friend. I guess mine-sweepers were considered expendable in those days. It took my friend many years to forgive the Japanese - though by sheer will (and grace) he eventually did so.
Thanks again, imoldernu. Though I never served, I have the highest respect and gratitude for those who did. Remember Pearl Harbor! YMMV