Mr._johngalt
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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Cut-Throat said:I really hope you don't have to unlearn this the hard way. You have very little control of things, in the grand scheme of life. You're a nice guy, and I'd hate to see anything bad happen to you.
Man, this is interesting. I agree with both of you. First, I agree with th that
people not accepting responsibility for themselves and their actions is one of the
"world's greatest problems" . Maybe not "the greatest" but close. I also agree
with C-T about not having as much control as most of us think. But, the implication of the Cut-Throat post is that we have NO control. Now, I am a control freak
(you could ask DW) But, I recognize that lots of stuff is happening and will
happen that I have absolutely no control over. Soooooooo, I am more in the
th camp, in this sense; bad things will happen no matter how prepared/smart/
lucky/nice/law-abiding/etc. you are. That's life. Just don't whine about it
or blame others for your situation (victim mentality - rampant in society today).
All whiners need to be boiled in their own juices. I assume th agrees. C-T
thinks we need to nurture and love them because some things out of their
control caused them harm or undue angst.. I think they should suck it up and get a life.
Tough love?
JG