Our 2 year FIRE anniversary is coming up. We’ve had a great time so far, and we both love being retired. Neither of us would ever consider going back to work unless we had to for survival, which is highly unlikely.
The first year, we traveled or had others visit us almost half the year. The second year, we traveled and had family visits too, but only for 2-3 months rather than almost six months in Year One. I ramped up my volunteer work too much and have already started to cut back.
I’m beginning to realize that I can likely be fulfilled without doing any volunteer work. Between exercising, food shopping and cooking, seeing friends and family, traveling, and learning/pursuing hobbies, I think I can stay busy enough to be happy. This surprises me a bit as I’ve always been a “Type A” person with a high need for activity, and I’ve always liked achieving things and feeling productive.
I could drop all of my volunteer work as my commitments come up for renewal, but it took me some time to build the relationships so I’m hesitant to do it in case I want to get back into it. I also wonder if I would feel selfish and guilty if I did nothing to help others.
Anyone else had this uncertainty and how did you resolve it?
The first year, we traveled or had others visit us almost half the year. The second year, we traveled and had family visits too, but only for 2-3 months rather than almost six months in Year One. I ramped up my volunteer work too much and have already started to cut back.
I’m beginning to realize that I can likely be fulfilled without doing any volunteer work. Between exercising, food shopping and cooking, seeing friends and family, traveling, and learning/pursuing hobbies, I think I can stay busy enough to be happy. This surprises me a bit as I’ve always been a “Type A” person with a high need for activity, and I’ve always liked achieving things and feeling productive.
I could drop all of my volunteer work as my commitments come up for renewal, but it took me some time to build the relationships so I’m hesitant to do it in case I want to get back into it. I also wonder if I would feel selfish and guilty if I did nothing to help others.
Anyone else had this uncertainty and how did you resolve it?