Sojourner
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[DW's] sister's kids are fairly dependent on us to the tune of about $10K a year. We pay for their necessities so that they can spend what little they have on video games, HBO, tattoos and junk food. Never--and I mean never once is there a thank you; even verbally.
To this day, the niece (age 27) will not acknowledge me or even say hello unless I do so first; I can stand in a room with her for a half hour and she will ignore me completely unless I speak first.
I've told DW that she better hope that I die first as I plan to cut these ingrates out of my will if she goes first.
It's not about expecting gratitude. It's about these creeps having the basic decency of acknowledging that something was given to them rather than it being a foregone expectation. Yeah, I know. They have no basic decency.
I'm curious why you would continue to give these sad excuses for people so much money ($10K per year). Is it solely because they are relatives and seem like they are in need of help? If I were giving someone thousands of dollars annually to help them out, I would at the very, very minimum expect to be acknowledged and greeted very kindly and effusively when standing in the same room with the person.