VanWinkle
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I don't agree especially for a second marriage when both parties have kids. Problems arise when a couple can't agree on the ground rules.
There are always two sides to a story...
Married couples who share finances have plenty of fights over money too.
I think money before marriage(2nd marriage) should be discussed and protected for the children involved if that is the decision. Income after marriage should be lumped together and spent for the common good of the couple. I may not have made that clear in my prior post. Couples don't have money problems, individuals have problems based on their views of money and marriage.
I hope that clarified my prior post for you,
VW