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I would like to influence our future SIL to spend money more carefully. He is not used to budgeting and right now tends to buy whatever he wants. Like a fancy car, whatever he feels like eating, etc.
I think he comes from a family that has these values as well. Probably live at their means, not live below their means.
Our family tends to be more careful with money - we buy "not fancy" cars, we eat food that is on sale, etc. We don't scrimp too much - we still have a good life. But as a consequence of LBYM we will be able to retire early. And we paid cash for our kids college, whereas he had loans.....
I would like to give him some reading to help adjust his values. The first book that comes to mind for him - a somewhat status oriented person - is "The Millionaire Next Door". My only concern about giving him this is the risk of offending him....
Do you have suggestions for other reading material that would help? Also any suggestions for how to turn a LAYM into a LBYM person?
Thank you all!!
I think he comes from a family that has these values as well. Probably live at their means, not live below their means.
Our family tends to be more careful with money - we buy "not fancy" cars, we eat food that is on sale, etc. We don't scrimp too much - we still have a good life. But as a consequence of LBYM we will be able to retire early. And we paid cash for our kids college, whereas he had loans.....
I would like to give him some reading to help adjust his values. The first book that comes to mind for him - a somewhat status oriented person - is "The Millionaire Next Door". My only concern about giving him this is the risk of offending him....
Do you have suggestions for other reading material that would help? Also any suggestions for how to turn a LAYM into a LBYM person?
Thank you all!!