Got RIFed from BigSoftware in June. I'm 63 and was thinking 'one more year'...
They offered me the option of finding another position or a pretty good package.
I took the package.
FireCalc, and my financial advisor tell me I have the FI in FIRE under control. DW on the other hand can't understand why I'm not scrambling for another BigSoftware/Tech job. Frankly, after 50 years of working, 35 plus in high tech sales, my heart isn't in it anymore.
I just can't accept that I'm 'retired'. I keep going to the home office, looking for that e-mail that really needs my attention, or going to interviews for part time consulting jobs -- that don't excite me.
DW still works, at a very rewarding, but very low paying job -- thinking that we 'need' her benefits and income. We don't -- She's seen the numbers but can't let go. I don't begrudge her, but... The guilt trip is starting to get old (after two months).
I'm seriously considering finding a 'fun' job completely un-related to my past work experience, like selling boats or motorcycles - I own both.
Any suggestions on: Big career change and convincing DW that we can/should retire?
TIA for any advice.
They offered me the option of finding another position or a pretty good package.
I took the package.
FireCalc, and my financial advisor tell me I have the FI in FIRE under control. DW on the other hand can't understand why I'm not scrambling for another BigSoftware/Tech job. Frankly, after 50 years of working, 35 plus in high tech sales, my heart isn't in it anymore.
I just can't accept that I'm 'retired'. I keep going to the home office, looking for that e-mail that really needs my attention, or going to interviews for part time consulting jobs -- that don't excite me.
DW still works, at a very rewarding, but very low paying job -- thinking that we 'need' her benefits and income. We don't -- She's seen the numbers but can't let go. I don't begrudge her, but... The guilt trip is starting to get old (after two months).
I'm seriously considering finding a 'fun' job completely un-related to my past work experience, like selling boats or motorcycles - I own both.
Any suggestions on: Big career change and convincing DW that we can/should retire?
TIA for any advice.