I know that when a LTC sales rep comes calling, he/she frequently emphasizes "impoverishment of the surviving spouse" as a reason for purchasing LTC. But I wonder about the statistics of that risk for people like those who frequent this board, live a LBYM lifestyle and FIRE with conservative financial plans.
In our own case, DW and I can self-insure in all but the most extreme scenarios of LTC, without the fear of spouse impoverishment. Some life style changes might be required. For example, if DW were to go into a pricey NH for a decade, I'd be trimming my lifestyle significantly, but I wouldn't be "impoverished."
In a more typical situation where one of us is NH confined for, say, 3 years, the survivor would be fine financially.
Has anyone seen any actual statistics on impoverishment rates? That is, of the folks that wind up in nursing homes, how many have a spouse who is "impoverished" following the eventual death of the confined spouse (that wouldn't have been impoverished anyway)?