Got a note from child care provider that we said too many good bye's today with the 3 1/2 uyr old and is concerned about a transition.
I did some googling, but I wanted my favorite forum to chime in.
How did you say goodbye to your toddler? One thing I want to be sure of is that I am consistent, and if there is crying that they feel safe.
So far he doesn't really cry, and today with the five goodbyes (one hug, two fist bumps, and two high-fives) was definitely more than I normally do, usually i've been asking do you want a hug because he used to always hug, but has wanted to some days not hug and just fist bump, or some days he fist bumps with a last minute hug.
Thoughts?
Haven't been back to pickup yet, but when I see provider I expect to understand from their vantage what the behavioral and emotional differences are AFTER I leave with the various levels of good byes.
I always like evidence.
I did some googling, but I wanted my favorite forum to chime in.
How did you say goodbye to your toddler? One thing I want to be sure of is that I am consistent, and if there is crying that they feel safe.
So far he doesn't really cry, and today with the five goodbyes (one hug, two fist bumps, and two high-fives) was definitely more than I normally do, usually i've been asking do you want a hug because he used to always hug, but has wanted to some days not hug and just fist bump, or some days he fist bumps with a last minute hug.
Thoughts?
Haven't been back to pickup yet, but when I see provider I expect to understand from their vantage what the behavioral and emotional differences are AFTER I leave with the various levels of good byes.
I always like evidence.
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