littleb
Recycles dryer sheets
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- May 29, 2015
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So here is the story.
I have a friend who is looking for me on XXXXXX reunion website and she has been posting for years trying to find me. She cannot locate me because she does not know my married name.
We were friends as teenagers for 2-3 years and then her family moved to another state. I connected with her 5 years later and her wild ways and taking advantage of people were more irritating than I remembered as a teenager. I had to give her gas money so she would leave.
Out of the blue 10 years later she called and was in town with her children and wanted to stay the night since she had nowhere to go. I politely told her we had plans and it was not possible at the last minute. This was her typical life of dropping in and expecting everyone to accommodate her situation. She made poor decisions in life, had 3 children out of wedlock and existed mainly on welfare according to her relatives.
The bottom line is I have nothing in common with her. Sure as 16 year old teenagers we had some pretty great times but we were young and immature. It seems like she never grew out of that mentality.
So do others feel this way about someone they hung out with in school and only knew a few years as a teenager? Do you really have that much in common with them as adults? I am not talking about long term childhood friendships.
I have a friend who is looking for me on XXXXXX reunion website and she has been posting for years trying to find me. She cannot locate me because she does not know my married name.
We were friends as teenagers for 2-3 years and then her family moved to another state. I connected with her 5 years later and her wild ways and taking advantage of people were more irritating than I remembered as a teenager. I had to give her gas money so she would leave.
Out of the blue 10 years later she called and was in town with her children and wanted to stay the night since she had nowhere to go. I politely told her we had plans and it was not possible at the last minute. This was her typical life of dropping in and expecting everyone to accommodate her situation. She made poor decisions in life, had 3 children out of wedlock and existed mainly on welfare according to her relatives.
The bottom line is I have nothing in common with her. Sure as 16 year old teenagers we had some pretty great times but we were young and immature. It seems like she never grew out of that mentality.
So do others feel this way about someone they hung out with in school and only knew a few years as a teenager? Do you really have that much in common with them as adults? I am not talking about long term childhood friendships.