jollystomper
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My condolences to your loss. In my opinion there is no need to rush to actions. Sometimes one must have the patience to let emotions work themselves out before making decisions on inheritances.
After our mother died my siblings and I decided to not make a decision on the house for a year. One sister lived in the house with mom but she married after mom's passing and moved out. Mom had enough friends in the community where we were able to have folks check on the house periodically if we could not. It was probably easier as there are 7 of us. The house was not sold until almost 4 years after mom died, and the wait actually benefited all of us.
Some folks snowbird and leave there houses for 3-6 months and the house does not fall to pieces. I do not know how big your mothers house is nor how much land it is on. If you are willing to spend a little for a few months, that might be best for the long run.
Without a pressing financial need I would just recommend giving your sister time and not pushing it for now. I observed bad experiences on DW's side of the family with folks rushing to get things for financial gain after a death in the family. Not worth it, in my opinion.
After our mother died my siblings and I decided to not make a decision on the house for a year. One sister lived in the house with mom but she married after mom's passing and moved out. Mom had enough friends in the community where we were able to have folks check on the house periodically if we could not. It was probably easier as there are 7 of us. The house was not sold until almost 4 years after mom died, and the wait actually benefited all of us.
Some folks snowbird and leave there houses for 3-6 months and the house does not fall to pieces. I do not know how big your mothers house is nor how much land it is on. If you are willing to spend a little for a few months, that might be best for the long run.
Without a pressing financial need I would just recommend giving your sister time and not pushing it for now. I observed bad experiences on DW's side of the family with folks rushing to get things for financial gain after a death in the family. Not worth it, in my opinion.