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Hi Vincente, I read through the posts and this seemed to stick out. As an American who has no strong cultural understanding of Spain, this is kind of fascinating. Have you asked some Spanish friends about their opinions on your specific case? Perhaps they would be more insightful? If you could see a family counselor in Spain what do you think they would advise?Here in Spain it is assumed that family has to put up with a lot, and, for them, hosting "now and then" a nephew is nothing to get upset about. It´s something that you take in stride.They say that they would happily do the same for me. But of couse I wouldn´t allow my son to crash whenever he liked in my siblings´s houses for the reasons that my nephew does: just to be with his girlfriend
Just some questions, you do not have to answer them here if you'd rather not. I know how you might feel, asking about a family matter and getting well meaning advise that is hard on the ears and perhaps a bit embarrassing to receive. My condolences on your plight. There is always the chance your nephew will not return and will remember his uncle as a nice guy.
P.S. I don't know about youth unemployment in Spain right now but Spanish unemployment is > 20%.
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