Finally FI
Dryer sheet aficionado
- Joined
- Nov 12, 2022
- Messages
- 39
Over my life, I've realized that the great place we are in now, including but not limited to FI and RE, has been shaped by many events that seemed horrific at the times they occurred.
I can go on, but you get the picture.
Is this common here, or did most of you figure it out without any pain?
- Finding myself alone and penniless as a young adult embedded a financial paranoia that drove a LBYM life and a home purchase at 26 to assure a roof over my head
- A bad accident as a young adult rerouted my life completely to a much better path
- A few extremely unhealthy previous relationships led to being ultra-picky about my next life partner and finding my wonderful DW, and has made me appreciative of her every single day
- Losing 82% of my first investment in the dot com crash by FOMO buying in 1999 and selling at the bottom a year later gave me the wisdom to understand my investments and to hold through every subsequent downturn
- Having friends, family members, and acquaintances get sick and die from stress and unhealthy lifestyles pushed my lifetime of exercise and de-stressing choices
- An absolutely horrific boss at work during a recession when changing jobs wasn't an option pushed me to back to college to finish a degree that resulted in a great lifeline career
I can go on, but you get the picture.
Is this common here, or did most of you figure it out without any pain?