jollystomper
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We definitely listen to younger people. DW moreso than I, as she was a college professor and high school teacher, and has a great way of connecting with them than I do not. Almost every time we are out and about the community some young person or persons will come up to say hello and have a conversation with her.
In addition to our kids, we have about 20 nieces and nephews in the age 18-40 range that we try to keep in touch with. Nothing extensive, just an occasional "how are things going" line, acknowledging birthdays and wedding anniversaries, etc.
Even if one has different views, you can always learn from them. I try to be quick to listen and slow and thoughtful to respond. I avoid the back-in-my-day-things-were-done-this-way-and-were-so-much-better attitude. I notice when you avoid that, they naturally start asking questions about the past that you can share with them (both the good and the bad about the past).
In addition to our kids, we have about 20 nieces and nephews in the age 18-40 range that we try to keep in touch with. Nothing extensive, just an occasional "how are things going" line, acknowledging birthdays and wedding anniversaries, etc.
Even if one has different views, you can always learn from them. I try to be quick to listen and slow and thoughtful to respond. I avoid the back-in-my-day-things-were-done-this-way-and-were-so-much-better attitude. I notice when you avoid that, they naturally start asking questions about the past that you can share with them (both the good and the bad about the past).