BeachOrCity
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So here I am in the first year of retirement. Analyzed the decision to death, and financially modeled the heck out of it. There is plenty of money to handle what is happening.
I own some real estate, and thoroughly modeled and set aside maintenance budgets as well.
This is more of a psych type of request.......
Feeling like anything that can break in the past year is breaking:
Normally I would just laugh it off as an unlucky streak, but with no W2 income coming in, I do seem to be letting it get to me.
While my ER budget has alot of room in it and planned spend is quite high, the fact that all this money is going out the door well in excess of annual maintenance budgets (and history) just "gets to me".
*** I guess I just wonder if its normal to feel more financially vulnerable in ER, and does that feeling ebb over time or does it stay with you? ***
I am more bothered by my reaction to these major bills, than I am about the bills themselves. I hope that this is temporary and is more a result of the bills happening in year 1, rather than that I will always let it get to me when I have major bills in retirement.
Thoughts?
I own some real estate, and thoroughly modeled and set aside maintenance budgets as well.
This is more of a psych type of request.......
Feeling like anything that can break in the past year is breaking:
- Transmission rebuild on the car
- Large tree fell on neighbors house
- Heat Exchanger cracked at house 1
- Oil heat needs to be replaced and tank removed at house 2
- etc etc etc (there's ALOT more)
Normally I would just laugh it off as an unlucky streak, but with no W2 income coming in, I do seem to be letting it get to me.
While my ER budget has alot of room in it and planned spend is quite high, the fact that all this money is going out the door well in excess of annual maintenance budgets (and history) just "gets to me".
*** I guess I just wonder if its normal to feel more financially vulnerable in ER, and does that feeling ebb over time or does it stay with you? ***
I am more bothered by my reaction to these major bills, than I am about the bills themselves. I hope that this is temporary and is more a result of the bills happening in year 1, rather than that I will always let it get to me when I have major bills in retirement.
Thoughts?