I was a workaholic, so all my post-college friends were work-related. When I first retired 5 years ago, I was having lunch with somebody once or twice a month, probably 5 or 6 different people. That's now dwindled down to 2 people, each once or twice per year. These two are true friends. One was my boss for a long period in the middle of my career. The other was a direct report for about the last 10 years. We rarely talk about work stuff except I sometimes ask about: where's person X now?... or who has position Y? They always ask me what it's like to be retired as they both ponder what they'll do to fill their day and massage their ego post-Mega.
I'm INTJ as well and I enjoy not having to endure the awkward social game at Megacorp. But I definitely still appreciate the relationships that built up over many years, at least for these two. My interest in sustaining these relationships hasn't really changed. I suspect we'll get together more after they're retired as well. Or maybe not. It's all good.
DW is different and she is having a harder time adjusting to the lack of daily interaction with her friends/coworkers. I think that's why she kept working 3 years after I retired.
I'm INTJ as well and I enjoy not having to endure the awkward social game at Megacorp. But I definitely still appreciate the relationships that built up over many years, at least for these two. My interest in sustaining these relationships hasn't really changed. I suspect we'll get together more after they're retired as well. Or maybe not. It's all good.
DW is different and she is having a harder time adjusting to the lack of daily interaction with her friends/coworkers. I think that's why she kept working 3 years after I retired.