I don’t envy your decision. I too love both lifestyles. We’re not on a farm now, but much more rural than we’ve lived before and we’re loving it. That said we’re still fairly close to drs, stores, etc. 20-30 minutes to most of a larger metro area. It gives us the peace and privacy that I need. Still, I miss walking down a busy block to dinner or grabbing a glass of wine at the wine bar downstairs.
A couple of thoughts come to mind. It’s easy to rent an Airbnb in an urban area for a week and be able to enjoy the lifestyle without owning. Maybe harder to do that in the country? It sounds like part of the issue is that both places require a lot of time. Would a low maintenance condo in an urban area be a nice compliment to the farm? Could you use your farm cottage as a caretakers place to cut down on the time spent maintaining the property?
A couple of thoughts come to mind. It’s easy to rent an Airbnb in an urban area for a week and be able to enjoy the lifestyle without owning. Maybe harder to do that in the country? It sounds like part of the issue is that both places require a lot of time. Would a low maintenance condo in an urban area be a nice compliment to the farm? Could you use your farm cottage as a caretakers place to cut down on the time spent maintaining the property?