athena53
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DH was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia a month ago and, although he's being treated for it, he's in the expected stage where things get worse before they get better. Right now he's weak and unsteady on his feet. He has a doc appointment on Monday so I can get his take on whether this has any chance of getting better since he's about to start a second course of meds (Vidaza).
What I can foresee, though, is a time when this will NOT get better because the Vidaza stops working or never does work. It's not a cure and DH is 78, so I'm not expecting remission, either. As DH slides into the next life, I can see that it will eventually be dangerous to leave him by himself for even a few hours as I do the grocery shopping or go to the gym. I am NOT giving up the gym.
With that prologue- there's a franchise called Seniors Helping Seniors and there's one in this area. It seems like a decent business model; healthy seniors who need extra income do things for seniors who need extra care. From their Web site it appears that they provide the kind of service I see us needing- someone to be with DH when I'm out, lend a hand if needed when he gets up to walk, getting him something from the kitchen if he's hungry... but there are no prices. Just the "give us your information and we'll call you" form.
Does anyone have any experience with this firm or know of good alternatives? I don't need the cheapest, but I do want reliable and honest. Thanks.
What I can foresee, though, is a time when this will NOT get better because the Vidaza stops working or never does work. It's not a cure and DH is 78, so I'm not expecting remission, either. As DH slides into the next life, I can see that it will eventually be dangerous to leave him by himself for even a few hours as I do the grocery shopping or go to the gym. I am NOT giving up the gym.
With that prologue- there's a franchise called Seniors Helping Seniors and there's one in this area. It seems like a decent business model; healthy seniors who need extra income do things for seniors who need extra care. From their Web site it appears that they provide the kind of service I see us needing- someone to be with DH when I'm out, lend a hand if needed when he gets up to walk, getting him something from the kitchen if he's hungry... but there are no prices. Just the "give us your information and we'll call you" form.
Does anyone have any experience with this firm or know of good alternatives? I don't need the cheapest, but I do want reliable and honest. Thanks.