After 8 years of caring for MIL DW and I spent the day moving her bed and what would fit into her new assisted living home. Currently in rehab after third hospitalization since Christmas for falls. Not happy about it one bit but tough. We provided a lake view suite with free room and board for 8 years plus I'd guess an average of 3 hours a day care from DW. We are done.
What's interesting is she's turned on us, lashing out. Totally disregards what we did for her for the last 8 years.
So we are tired and it's been a stressful week. But the good news is now we will have our freedom. Three years of boat anchored retirement wasn't all that fun.
So that's what WE did today: preparing for freedom. And no matter what she thinks or says, we know we're good people.