My wife died at age 50 (I was 51). She had a very long illness and it did not allow us to have a physical relationship for 15 years. As soon as she passed away I put my name on Match.com. By divine intervention I was sought out and hounded by a woman who was also a widow at a younger age (she's a year and a half older). I couldn't have been more blessed and we were married two years later.
We married and did not live together so I could do the right thing and set a good example for the kids on both sides. It cost us some significant money that she was getting from the VA. However we are great together and I do like the company of a woman.
Not sure what I'd do if I became a widow again. The kids are older and they would probably understand a different type of relationship than another marriage.
We married and did not live together so I could do the right thing and set a good example for the kids on both sides. It cost us some significant money that she was getting from the VA. However we are great together and I do like the company of a woman.
Not sure what I'd do if I became a widow again. The kids are older and they would probably understand a different type of relationship than another marriage.