With Respect to the 55+ communities we have been to in our area. We have found that we really prefer Regular Gated Multi family communities with a good HOA and well managed finances. (The last 2 being the hardest to establish).
Here are some of our comments as to why we decided against the Area or the individual Community. This does not mean there are not a lot of positives, just what we found not to our liking, again YMMV. Our current community over the last 5 years has pleasantly become a good mix of families, still not overrun with small children, mostly all professional. I guess the Golf Club is an attraction for some, but not us. The HOA is still reasonable, but the finances are VERY good. BTW, we are VERY particular about the general Location, Area, and surrounding neighborhoods, and ease of access to a nice beach. That and we will never buy a Wood home in Florida, near the beach.
We reviewed, actually visited and toured the following:
Dell Web Pointe Vedra
While not far from the beach, because of the traffic, it takes a while to get there, and when one does the parking is restrictive.
Same for Shopping in PV. Traffic around Sawgrass is too much for our liking. But everything you want is available. But has very good access to Jacksonville if that's what turns your crank.
Homes are now being built of wood, and general quality seems not to be as good as the older properties. The older homes are concrete block and as a result reflect a premium. This is a BIG deal for us. Lot sizes are also getting smaller.
Nocatee is too close for our liking.
The Clubhouse seemed full of "Nearly Deads" (Not being derogatory, just to us everyone seemed VERY Old. We are in our Early and Mid 60's.)
Sweetwater
Did not like the location, called and cancelled the appointment once we were near the location.
Stillwater
Too far from the beach. Too Crowded. Close to Jacksonville, so it may appeal to some.
Del Webb Nocatee
Well it is Nocatee, to crowded and location not to our liking. similar to Del Web PV.
Villages of Seloy
Small Semi Detached Homes. (Too Small for us) We want a fully detached property.
Small Club House. No saving graces as far as we were concerned.
Various 55+ Developments in World Golf Village
The area is nice, but too far away from where we like to be.
Homes mostly wood. We are not fans of WGV.
Rivertown St. Johns
Did not like the home construction or Styles, seemed cheap. Again made of Wood.
Soooooo far from everything.
Once you get near shopping the traffic is ridiculous, Think Orange PArk and Blanding Boulevard.
Margaritaville in Daytona
Homes VERY Well Built.
Too Far from a decent beach, but they do have a clubhouse at the beach for residents.
Too Much Buffet everywhere, gets tedious even for the length of an averare Tour.
Once again we are particular, YMMV. For now we will stay put.