Calgary_Girl
Full time employment: Posting here.
You don't trust her enough to marry her but you trusted her enough to bring kids into the world.
I don't get it.
I don't get it.
You don't trust her enough to marry her but you trusted her enough to bring kids into the world.
I don't get it.
Well, these things happen............
Twice?
Twice?
TheFed, you are a very brave guy to discuss this at a site where so many people are known to keep shotguns handy.
Whatever you decide, keep on posting here, you have some "family" here as well and we love you all the more for sharing.
P.S. there is some very good advise on this thread but it isn't counseling.
Twice?
Some of y'all might get part time work as volunteer preachers. What do any of us know about this that should make us feel qualified to give advice?
Life is always getting messed up. It's a human curse. But at the same time it's a human blessing to be able endure and sometimes even smile through all the sorrow.
Anyway, Fed isn't here for advice, he is here for entertainment (His and ours). And I must say that he is pretty good in that very important role.
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im a very anti-establishment,anti-NORM person. its the NORM to get a 9-5job and work for a living. i didnt do that. its the NORM for people to get married in our situation. instead i see it as 1) a religious tradition that serves no purpose but to make one/both parties feel secure...remember that im not religious 2) a financial agreement
Anyway, Fed isn't here for advice, he is here for entertainment (His and ours). And I must say that he is pretty good in that very important role.
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Are you SURE about that? There's enough apparent truth mixed into this story to make me wonder...
I think ProspectiveBum is saying that there probably are enough grains of truth for it to be worrisome even if there is some "embellishment." I agree with him.I don't doubt the truth of any of this.
If you split-up & she finds another guy, don't plan on seeing, being with, interacting, etc with your kids as much as you might think - despite what the court order may say...
. He gets something from being here, but it isn't advice. If you doubt this go back and read some old dramas, the advice given, and Fed's course of action. Simple things like house wiring are in a different category
So maybe this conflict isn't really over whether or not to get married -- maybe this conflict is over whether or not you're equal partners in your relationship. Your comment about needing "control" also leads me to think this.
I missed that thread...did he get electrocuted? Like my grandpa used to say...why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
AKA, why buy the cow when you can milk it through the fence?