My ex cut my hair 3 on top 2 on sides -it was great because I never had to look at it and she could never complain about my haircut! I did buzzed for a quite a while but am now exercising my post-FIRE freedom by growing my hair out and hit a chain salon every 3-4 months so I don't look too unkempt. It really doesn't help with dating but neither does being "unemployed" so I may as well look the part!