Bimmerbill
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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DD, who is 32 months old, was just dianosed with autism. I feel bad and very worried for her future. Docs said it was moderate to mild (wouldn't commit to a level, probably not possible now), DW is in total denial. Final report is due in 30 days.
Looks like we can get some additional services for more therapy (she does OT and speech now) but not sure what my small rural town has for support. We met with them a few weeks ago and they have a 2 day a week program, half days. The docs recommended 25 hours one-on-one as a minimum. I may need to move to a bigger town/city with a good preschool that can support more services/time.
They say more therapy is better, the earlier the better. They also said they were optimistic about her future, but I feel myself getting pulled down by the sheer scale of the problem.
Does anyone here have pointers, experience, or something to share? What worries me is that some articles I've read said most of the cost is not covered by insurance. That is fine, I make good money and will cut whatever I need to to get her the help she needs.
How do I know its enough? How do I know how much is too much? I'll feel guilty buying a cup of coffee (or saving in my 401k) if I should spend the $ on therapy. $50K a year for 40 hours of therapy? Heck, I make $74K.... There are so many different theories/therapies available.
I do have a plan: Work with the current OT/Speach people and identify additional services. Talk again with the local school system to ID services. Day care may be able to help out too, funds permitted. Add up all of this, see how it works.
Gotta do some reading, check out some support groups.
But, man, felt like I was stabbed in the heart when they said autism.
Looks like we can get some additional services for more therapy (she does OT and speech now) but not sure what my small rural town has for support. We met with them a few weeks ago and they have a 2 day a week program, half days. The docs recommended 25 hours one-on-one as a minimum. I may need to move to a bigger town/city with a good preschool that can support more services/time.
They say more therapy is better, the earlier the better. They also said they were optimistic about her future, but I feel myself getting pulled down by the sheer scale of the problem.
Does anyone here have pointers, experience, or something to share? What worries me is that some articles I've read said most of the cost is not covered by insurance. That is fine, I make good money and will cut whatever I need to to get her the help she needs.
How do I know its enough? How do I know how much is too much? I'll feel guilty buying a cup of coffee (or saving in my 401k) if I should spend the $ on therapy. $50K a year for 40 hours of therapy? Heck, I make $74K.... There are so many different theories/therapies available.
I do have a plan: Work with the current OT/Speach people and identify additional services. Talk again with the local school system to ID services. Day care may be able to help out too, funds permitted. Add up all of this, see how it works.
Gotta do some reading, check out some support groups.
But, man, felt like I was stabbed in the heart when they said autism.