Our company policy prohibits us from discussing salary with our fellow co-workers. And it's a good thing, because we have enough backstabbers here that are petty enough as it is. Arm them with some salary info on each other, and we'd have some real pissing contests around here!
They tend to keep bonuses and raises hushed up, too. One year, late 2003 IIRC, the raises were so petty that basically if you truly excelled you got 1.5%, if you were only so-so you got less, and if you were a screw up you got Zero. I got 1.5%, and my co-worker got nothing. The way I found this out was because my supervisor at the time told me to keep hushed up about what I was getting, because she wasn't getting anything.
I also got a couple of bonuses here and there, that they told me to keep quiet about because not everybody got one. However, there's this peer award that the gov't does every year, which they make a big pomp and circumstance about. It pays $1000. I won an award back in 2001, and just got one this past September. I'm not sure, but I think it's pretty rare for someone to get two of them so close together.
Anyway, this last time around, I got congratulated left and right by the gov't people that our company supports, as well as some of my co-workers in other departments. But in my own office, only my immediate supervisor congratulated me. Nobody else said anything at all...in fact some of them actually went out of their way to be nasty to me around that time!
I know there's a lot of inequality in the workplace with salaries and so forth, but I really haven't done anything special to get these bonuses and raises. I haven't slept with anybody, stabbed anybody in the back, made empty promises, or so forth. Nothing other than good old fashioned hard work and dependability. Which is something some of my co-workers just can't grasp.
I've also learned over the years that discussing salary with friends outside of the office can also lead to hard feelings. I have a friend who's a teacher, and is 3 years younger than me. He's just about to get his master's degree, and is going on to a doctorate I believe. I just have a bachelor's. I forget what he makes nowadays, but I know I still make more than he does, and I can tell he's bitter about it. He says he's not, but he'll even make comments about how messed up the world is, where he's about to get a master's degree, yet I make more than he does. Sorry bud, but nobody told you to go into that profession! I'd always heard that teaching truly is a labor of love! Especially in this county!