aja8888
Moderator Emeritus
The only thing I wouldn't do is sell it or give to someone you don't know (like a charity).
It meant a lot to her and obviously to you. If no one in the family wants it or its pieces, I'd maybe put it in a frame or small domed glass display as a precious memory. Maybe have it buried with you when the time comes...(that's what I'd do)
Other things, sure, but a wedding ring to me is something entirely different.
Just one man's opinion.
I wouldn't do anything just this moment - but would think it over for a bit. There's no rush, the ring is special to you, and certainly doesn't take up much space.
I like the idea of having multiple pendants made from it - one for each daughter and the granddaughter. in memory of your DW. (You may have to add a little gold.)
I would reach out to the steps on Christmas Eve to wish them a happy holiday - whether or not they deserve it. In other words, keep the door open.
Thanks! both appreciated thoughts and ideas.