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Wow. My husband and I are trying hard to keep things fair and amicable. We each kept our own retirement accounts and our kids are already grown. I'm not sure if I would marry again, it's hard enough to start dating!
Wow. My husband and I are trying hard to keep things fair and amicable. We each kept our own retirement accounts and our kids are already grown. I'm not sure if I would marry again, it's hard enough to start dating!
The strange thing is I know several couples that have been together for well over ten years and decide to get married and then split up shortly after . I can not figure it why that happens.
Sometimes people view marriage as a bond whereas just being together requires continual effort. I emphasize "sometimes".The strange thing is I know several couples that have been together for well over ten years and decide to get married and then split up shortly after . I can not figure it why that happens.
But, I would never feel the same way about another man, so there would be no second marriage for me.
This is how I feel too. I feel so lucky because I could never figure out why people say marriage is so hard. My husband and I have been together for 20 years and it's been pretty easy the whole time. We have similar values and outlooks. Maybe that's why. I dunno, when he is away for a day I miss him and look forward to when he comes home.
As I stated earlier my new husband and I have a prenup, there were financial reasons to marry though. He has a pension with health insurance until Medicare at 65. If he dies before me I will get his pension. If we divorce I get no portion of his pension.
We plan to travel while we are still young enough to enjoy it.
Marriage does change things somewhat, I tease my husband all the time that it's better to have a boyfriend since he worked pretty hard to convince me to be wife number 3.
I will admit he's pretty darn good to me, I guess I like his undivided attention. Wife number 1 and 2 were fools in my book!! But from my husbands perspective fool me once fool me twice...
He and wife number 2 discussed a prenup. She agreed, he didn't follow through. That cost him big time. I can see both sides when it's marry or don't marry again. The romantic in me is for marriage so is my difficult side since it's harder to walk away but Love is the key.
I truly feel for those not willing or able to love again. It just makes me sad, because love and companionship are what brings life Joy and Happiness!
I truly feel for those not willing or able to love again. It just makes me sad, because love and companionship are what brings life Joy and Happiness!
I hope I can find Joy and Happiness even if I never meet Mr. Right!
I truly feel for those not willing or able to love again. It just makes me sad, because love and companionship are what brings life Joy and Happiness!
This is how I feel too. I feel so lucky because I could never figure out why people say marriage is so hard. My husband and I have been together for 20 years and it's been pretty easy the whole time. We have similar values and outlooks. Maybe that's why. I dunno, when he is away for a day I miss him and look forward to when he comes home.
I think this is how you know you have the right person.
I've known married people who feel very alone.
Sometimes it's more fun with Mr. Wrong
Marry don't marry it's a personal choice, but for me I want a man in my life. I want a significant other and everything that entails. He makes my life complete.
Personally I would not be happy alone. If others find joy and happiness alone great.
Divorce sucks and I am sure my ex who fought every moment and $ in a 50/50 state would say he was robbed. He made it, he spent it and I saved every dollar I could scrap together since I handled the finances. Married 18 years to a narcissistic addict, but will love that jerk till I drop. He is like one of my children. New husband is truly the best thing that ever happened to me.
I will never forget my mom during our divorce....honey (me) don't you wish you had spent more $$ while you were married?
My answer, NO! There wouldn't have been anything to split if I spent like him.
Lucky for me I choose a profession where I could go from occasional work to full time and make enough to support myself and my kids.
Waived alimony, he is far more likely to be unemployed (sales) in his 50's than me. I had to convince my attorney I was 100% sure of that!!
Funny thing he swears he'll never marry again but bought a house with bartender GF, �� duh! Hope that works out for him.
I think DH and Our prenup is safer.
I will never forget my mom during our divorce....honey (me) don't you wish you had spent more $$ while you were married?
Couldn't you have a significant other, all it entails, and a complete life without being married? I did.
I'm wondering why you feel getting married gives you something someone unmarried is not getting.