David1961
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This is somewhat similar to the post on introvert holiday hosting, but with a different perspective. I know there are many introverts here, and am looking for some strategies for dealing with the invitations from well-meaning family and friends over Christmas. Honestly, after spending Christmas with my extended family, I feel like I need days of alone time to recharge and recover. Practically all my family and friends are very outgoing and just don't seem to understand that I need alone time. They call me "party pooper" and seem offended if I do not attend their events. And they keep score and will wonder why I attended XXX's party and not theirs. I don't really want to lie and say I have something else going on. Is there a better way to explain to them in a way that they will not be offended? These are folks I truly care about.