Markola
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
I think I might finally be getting the hang of this lifestyle, but it is a process of letting go. I FIREd in July, thinking “Oh, I’ll probably do some consulting in my field.” In November, I found myself talking to a headhunter for about a week, until I slapped myself straight and bailed. In December, I found myself pitching my consulting idea to someone. Yesterday, they emailed to invite me to send a proposal. I thought about what I most want, called them and said, “No thanks, I’ve changed my mind.” Fortunately, I know this person well and he didn’t act like I was a flake. In fact, he said he and his wife talk about retiring early, too, and he even said, “Congratulations!”
The idea that I’d turn down a bit of easy money in my prior field of 30 years, just because I am now valuing my time more than money and I’ve developed an allergy to obligations, is a real surprise to me! I thought I’d want to keep a hand in things and maintain my network but I can barely stand to look at LinkedIn.
Did you have a process of letting go, trusting the numbers and accepting that you’re FIREd? I think I’m only recently allowing myself to believe it. How did it go for you and when did you accept that you’re done?
The idea that I’d turn down a bit of easy money in my prior field of 30 years, just because I am now valuing my time more than money and I’ve developed an allergy to obligations, is a real surprise to me! I thought I’d want to keep a hand in things and maintain my network but I can barely stand to look at LinkedIn.
Did you have a process of letting go, trusting the numbers and accepting that you’re FIREd? I think I’m only recently allowing myself to believe it. How did it go for you and when did you accept that you’re done?