ziggy29
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Yeah. I think I'll stop procrastinating tomorrow.Procrastination seems to be my main problem.
Yeah. I think I'll stop procrastinating tomorrow.Procrastination seems to be my main problem.
Double ditto on this. But I like the way you put it "standing in line twice for logic".
But I don't know if I *really* want to change this, although I have considered taking classes in empathy and tact if I could find someone to give the lecture.
Ought to be plenty guys here ready and willing to help.
Well, where do I start. OK, I've had contractors say they were coming to my house numerous times and just never show up or call. The place where I bought my tires said they would pro rate my defective tires and jerked me around for months. Eyeglass place said one price and gave me a bill for another price. Roofing guy told me that he nailed my tiles back after a repair. The next day I had a solar guy over and he said he almost killed himself as a bunch of tiles were not nailed down.
I can go on and on, I can't believe you haven't experienced this type of treatment in Florida. As someone else said it's the laid back life style. But there are also plenty of scam artists down here.
Now I know there is some of this type of behavior everywhere but there's a lot more down here. I guess this is what you have to put up with to live in paradise. (heh)
Ditto me for #1 and #2, but not #3. My (related) #3 is probably to resist competing at everything I do. I've gotten much better, but I still have a good ways to go. Life is too short...1. To not be so serious so much of the time.
2. To be more "tactful" and not speak my mind as much.
3. To not over-analyze or try to figure out what others are thinking.
4. ...
Man, I have a lot of faults that I need to work on.
I find it difficult to be assertive, even blunt with people to get a point across when that approach is exactly what is needed. I'm so diplomatic that I sometimes miss a chance to help them, because it means hurting their feelings. Some really positive turning points in my life came when someone who cared about me wasn't afraid to get in my face to get my attention.
WHAT!!!!!?I'm just too damned shy...
I'm too judgmental. I have no tolerance for [-]crap[/-] mediocrity. INTJ all the way!
Thing is, I'm not sure I want to change. Everyone else should change!
Tact is not high on the list for INTJs and ISTJs, last I checked. We are definitely the "what is wrong with YOU people" personality type. LOL!
bbbamI...Right...and I'm a monkey's uncle!
Tact is not high on the list for INTJs and ISTJs, last I checked. We are definitely the "what is wrong with YOU people" personality type. LOL!
bbbamI...Right...and I'm a monkey's uncle!
I for one, don´t. But, who cares? Personally I like ém sassy.Whut? Nobody believes me?
I am at this very moment at home(here in western PA) waiting for an HVAC technician to show up to check out my furnace before winter. I took vacation time after lunch to be home early, and he should have been here.
One thing? I have to choose just one thing?
Oh gosh, I can't decide, I can't decide.
What am I going to do?