I have always exercised daily for 40 years. When I needed a beta blocker it slowed my metabolism down along with my heart rate. Gradually I gained 50lbs because I didn’t change my eating habits and I was in the obese range.
When covid hit I noticed that old fat people with health conditions were dying. The only thing I could change was my weight and I lost 50lbs in 6 months and have kept it off for 3 years. I went from taking 2 HBP pills to one and although I still have aches and pains from a few car accidents they are greatly reduced.
I now have a bmi of 25 and my doctor was thrilled and asked me how I did it. My blood work is now excellent. I definitely agree that we have some control over our health but not all.
Similar story a few years prior to retirement. Approaching obesity, very poor diet, long work hours, lots of travel and entertainment.
For me it was not simply the weight. It was diet and exercise. I dropped 40lbs. I was fortunate. I had an MD who told me clearly, in plain english, and small words where my health was headed if I did not change.
My wife is a RN. She said to me at the time...you follow your accountants advice, you follow your lawyers advice. So what about your physicians advice?
It also appeared to have an unanticipated benefit. I was under stress at work. It seemed to me that my stress level actually decreased when I made some changes. And I slept better.
What made the biggest change for both of us was travel to southern Europe each fall and spending winters in SE Asia. It completely changed our diets for the better. And that change became very evident in our respective blood work, weight, and general feeling of well being. It also impacted my sleep.
Bottom line for me. Following the advice and the direction of two physicians as it pertained to weight, diet, and exercise over a period of five years prior to retirement completely changed my post retirement health and sense of well being. It was not always easy at first and there was some backsliding on my part. It was probably easier because my spouse, who did not have a weight challenge, made the diet and exercise changes in concert with me.
This is not to say that I do not expect to have the usual health challenges as I age because I do. We are both trying to avoid or lessen the health challenges that are within our respective control.